While suicide isn’t explicitly condemned in the Bible, it would be wickedly disingenuous to consider that God’s tacit approval of the act. Pedophilia, same-sex marriage, abortion and other sins also aren’t explicitly named as sin, yet an honest reading of what God says on a host of other matters reveal his heart on these topics. First, there’s the fact that murder is an explicitly named sin (Exodus 20:13), and suicide is but self-murder. Second, it’s helpful to note that all instances of suicide in the Bible were carried out by those who were enemies of God, or those or who had turned away from Him.
2. Thoughts About Suicide + Mental Illness
While it’s a popular in the world and among some Christians to absolve one of the sin of suicide if they suffered mental illness, there is no Biblical case for it. First, let’s highlight how there isn’t a single sin the Lord excuses because of one’s mental health. There is no such thing as “Go and sin no more, unless you’re mentally ill.” And we need to be honest - what we count as “mental illness” is what the Scriptures count as spiritual oppression or double-mindedness (Judges 9:23; 1 Samuel 16:14-23; 1 Kings 18:21; Matthew 4:24, 5:15, 9:23; Mark 5 and elsewhere). Scripture says “a double-minded man is unstable in all his ways” (James 1:8). But there is hope, as the double-minded can be cleansed if they draw near to God (James 4:8).
3. Thoughts About Suicide + Repentance
“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). In context, this verse appears in a letter to a body of Believers who are being encouraged to remain in right fellowship with God and one another. In fact, the whole of 1 John offers these (and future) Believers a test for a being a genuine Christian - those who confess and are repentant of sin (1 John 1), those who don’t practice willful sin (1 John 2), those who love their brother (1 John 3-4), and those who love God by keeping His commandments (1 John 4-5). And, yet, those who would make a case for suicide being a “forgivable sin” would say one who commits self-murder can be assured of Christ’s salvation, no repentance necessary.
4. Thoughts About Suicide + Faith
Even if we remove mental illness claims away from the topic of suicide, there are those who claim Christian suicide is still possible in a “moment of weakness” or as a “split second decision”. To be sure, that’s an extremely drastic decision to make in a snap. But if it were to occur, it would only prove that individual, even in that moment, rejected the sufficiency of God’s grace for us, as He says He is made strong in our weakness (1 Corinthians 12:9). Even if someone took his/her own life in a “split second” decision, it doesn’t negate that the Lord, who calls His just to live by faith, says if someone so much as shrinks back, His soul takes no pleasure in them (Hebrews 10:38). One making this argument also has to contend with the fruit of patience and self-control we have as Believers born again of the Holy Spirit. So, again, a Christian making a snap decision to take his/her own life in a flash moment of despair is an interesting scenario.
Why I No Longer Pray for 'Contentment in Singleness'
About two weeks before my 39th birthday I fell into a mild depression. I was entering the final year of my 30s a single lady, and not only that, there was no one waiting in the wings to “put a ring on it”. Honestly, that broke my heart...and it did a nice little number on my pride. I didn’t feel “single, saved and sassy” or whatever catchy, alliterative descriptor some Christian authors might use these days. I simply felt “single and sad”...and angry...and lonely...and frustrated...and anxious!
Thankfully, on the day of my birthday, the depression and heaviness of what I’d been feeling lifted. But in the weeks and months to come, I’d still find myself “feeling a way” about my marital status.
Bye...Jackie?
At this point, most are aware that famed Christian poet, writer and speaker Jackie Hill Perry has recently and publicly affirmed the ministries of several female heretics. Amid news of her participation at Propel Women’s Activate 2019 conference, Jackie has garnered a slew of controversy as many have attempted to make sense of her decision.
There might have been room to offer her the benefit of the doubt for why she signed on to the event, and many were prepared to offer it. Perhaps she didn’t know much about the ministries of the other speakers, namely the conference’s co-founder Christine Caine of Hillsong Church Australia. Or, maybe she was aware of these women and their errors, but wanted to share the Gospel and offer up a public rebuke. Yet, Jackie removed all doubt with a recent Instagram post and Insta-Story in which she unapologetically confessed her willingness to fellowship and do ministry with those whose doctrinal teachings oppose to the truth of God’s Word.
Where Scripture says light has no fellowship with darkness (2 Corinthians 6:14-17), Jackie cites her goal to better love her neighbor. Where Scripture says not to welcome or even greet those who bring a different gospel (2 John 1:10), Jackie cites a quest for “unity”. While her goals may be Scriptural (Christ does tell us to love our neighbor and He did pray for unity in the Body), her application of these Scriptures don’t align with the context upon which these truths stand. Christ has warned us against sacrificing truth on the altar of peace (Matthew 10:34-36). Her twisting of the Scriptures in this way is most troubling and could be telling of deeper matters most, including myself, don’t yet want to admit.
So, in an attempt to be slowER to speak and quickER to listen, I’ve avoided saying much on this issue too soon, despite many tagging and messaging me for my thoughts on this soon after the news broke.
While she’s done things and has had associations that have caused me great concern, I’ve still considered her a sister in Christ thus this news has only caused me grief, disappointment and frustration. As such, I thought it best to just collect my thoughts as anything stated too hastily might not have been coherent or edifying. So, over the past few days, I’ve examined my thoughts and Jackie’s statements under the light of Scripture. In the end, I have come away with the following open letter that takes care to directly respond to the various points she raised in her statement.
Beloved, Do Not Believe Every Spirit: On Signs, Wonders + Spiritual Gifts
To be sure, no doctrinal debate has most wrecked my brain than the debate on the cessation versus continuation of miraculous spiritual gifts (ie; prophecy, tongues, healing). I mean, I guess IF the Lord has willed for the cessation of miraculous gifts, so be it. After all, Scripture says that the Holy Spirit distributes spiritual gifts to each Believer as He wills (1 Corinthians 12:11). Thus, it is possible that He no longer wills to distribute to any Believer the gift of healing, for example. Nevertheless, after I've researched this topic for my own edification, I haven't found anything in Scripture which specifically speaks to the cessation of any of the spiritual gifts at any time before Christ returns. And despite the case for cessationism put forth by men I highly regard in the Body of Christ, I’m not personally comfortable with making that proclamation or emphatically holding to it as a matter of doctrine. (May all reformed proponents of cessationism forgive me. Thankfully, this isn't a salvific issue, thus I trust they will continue to receive me as a sister in the Lord.)
"Then the Lord called to the man...'Where are you?'": Men on Abortion
After thousands of years of human existence, women remain the only gender (of the only two genders) that can biologically become pregnant with, carry, and give birth to another human life. As such, it is only natural and understandable that the female perspective is considered in discourse on abortion. Yet, in the past 40 years, society has systematically and disingenuously presented the female perspective as the only perspective that matters, especially when that perspective is “pro-choice”.
Sure, the very camp that’s long supported rhetoric like “It’s a woman’s right to choose!” now also supports the “right to choose” of women who feel they’re men (thus, per society, they are “men”) - because, apparently, “men can get pregnant, too.” But gender confusion and obvious delusions aside, the male perspective on, and a man’s experience with, abortion is typically silent and silenced. And with abortion in the news quite frequently in recent months, I’ve found their silence rather deafening - perhaps as deafening as Adam’s as he watched Eve eat the forbidden fruit (Genesis 3:6).
Why the Church Ain't No Good to Meagan Good: The Truth About Church Hurt
During her recent appearance on the DL Hughley Show, professing Christian and actress Meagan Good opened up about why she often skips church. No..it’s not because of her busy work schedule or a debilitating illness. It’s because of….you guessed it: “CHURCH FOLK”.
“Church folk”, a pejorative for Christians, is often hurled in response to a Christian or Christians one might perceive as judgmental (condemning) or hypocritical. In fairness to Meagan, she does share in the interview that she loves Christians, the church and her Lord and Savior. Yet, she immediately undermines her proclamation when she conversely notes her decision to “love” us from a distance to protect her spirit, which she says is too sensitive.
Thanks to Meagan’s now viral commentary, the topic of “church hurt” has been thrust back into the spotlight for mainstream fodder. As can be expected, the general public fully sides with Meagan and even encourages her to continue to forsake the assembling of the saints (Hebrews 10:25). In response, however, I felt compelled to dissect the concept of “church hurt” and discuss whether Meagan’s sentiments hold any merit.
God Wins: A Gospel-Centric "Pride Month" Series
As most of you may be aware, June is LGBT Pride Month. However, most may not be aware that June is also Truth + Fire’s anniversary month. (Yay! We’re turning 4 this year!) Of course, this blog’s mission and the LGBT agenda are diametrically opposed. Yet, I’ve decided to intersect our respective celebrations with a Pride Month series.
You read that correctly!
From my thoughts on Caitlyn Jenner and Kim Davis to answering some of my gay friends’ most pressing questions, all of Truth + Fire’s LGBT-related content has been curated into a single collection for your reading pleasure this June.
I pray you find this series edifying, and I hope God graces you to share it (and the Gospel of Jesus Christ) with your LGBT-identifying friends and family this month and beyond.
With all the peace and love God intends,
Veriteetfeu